So you’ve decided on a Wisconsin elopement, but now you’re staring at a blank page wondering where to begin. The good news? You don’t need to overthink it. In fact, that’s the whole point.
This is your chance to slow down and craft a day that actually feels like you. Whether that means a sunrise hike, making breakfast side-by-side in a cozy cabin, or a celebratory cocktail at sunset, I’m here to help you build a timeline that’s rooted in the things you love.
Think about your favorite memories as a couple (your go-to weekend adventures, your first dates, your cozy Sunday rituals) and let that guide you. To help get the ideas flowing, here are a few ways couples choose to spend their Wisconsin elopement day.

Start with an Adventure
If you’re the outdoorsy type, start your day off with something active. Whether it’s catching the sunrise from a kayak or four-wheeling your way through the Northwoods, Wisconsin has plenty of options for nature-fueled fun.
Here are a few of my favorites:
- Kayak the Sea Caves – Apostle Islands, Bayfield, WI
- Paddleboard Rentals – Anywhere Door County (seriously..anywhere)
- ATV Rentals + Trails – Black River State Forest
Or Keep It Slow and Intentional
Sometimes the best way to start your wedding day is with a slow morning. Think: your favorite record playing, fresh coffee brewing, and a quiet breakfast before you get ready together. It doesn’t have to be grand to be meaningful.
Looking for the perfect place to kick off your day? These Airbnb gems might be just the vibe you’re after:
- Cozy Forest Cabin – Bayfield, WI
- Cottage in the Hills – Richland Center, WI
- Secluded Scotland-Inspired Cabin – Montello, WI
Pause for a Picnic (or a Little Pampering)
If your morning starts with an adventure, plan some time in the middle of your day to rest, reset, and soak it all in. A scenic picnic is a great way to refuel and reconnect – you can even use this moment to exchange letters, read notes from loved ones, or just sit in the quiet together.

Want to add a little luxury to the mix? Treat yourself with:
- Spa Day – Kohler Waters Spa, Kohler, WI
- Private Chef Experience – Tiny Spoon Chef, Wisconsin
- Private Sailboat Tour – Pepin, WI
End the Day with a Toast
Wrap up your Wisconsin elopement with a toast to your next chapter – whatever that looks like for you. Maybe you mix your favorite cocktails or mocktails in your Airbnb, hit up a local supper club, or cozy up with local brews by the fire.
Here are a few local go-tos for the occasion:
- Brandy Old Fashioned (Sweet, of course) – A Wisconsin staple
- Bloody Mary – Especially fitting for a Sunday elopement
- Craft Beers – New Glarus, Ale Asylum, and Door County Brewing Co. are great starts
The beauty of eloping is that there’s no “right” way to do it. You can mix adventure with rest, tradition with spontaneity, and make it all completely your own.
And if you need a guide to help bring it all together – I’d love to be that person.